another niluh's

When someone sacrifice your trust and loyalty,
be it at your work or your personal life,
carry on and continue building your dreams,
with honesty and dignity.
Never lose your faith.
Your sadness will turn into amazing happiness,
while the cheater will simply receive
twice as much as the misery they caused you.
That is what I called the rule of the universe,
and I am watching it coming slowly,
with a sincere smile on my face.

Be strong my Ladies, as I always say
You are beautiful and you deserve the best,
in this very short life ♥

just proverb

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Forgive those
who have hurt you in the past.
But more than this,
forgive yourself
for allowing them to hurt you.

~ unknown ~

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the advantage of speaking the truth
is that you don't have to remember what you said ♥

~ unknown ~

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When you fully trust a person without any doubt,
you finally get one of the two result :

A person for life,
or
A lesson for life.

~ Unknown ~

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The cheat always lies
at the feet of the cheated.

~ Italian Proverb ~ 

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from niluh djelantik

Abuse, are not acceptable in any forms.

Living with Abuse is like living with invisible weight on our shoulder, and the worst part is that after sometime we start to accept and thinks that it is normal to be treated this way.

Some people hope that by accepting it and living up to the expectation of the abuser and their abuse, the condition will improve and things will change.

The painful truth is, it will not change. No matter how you did your best, it will never be enough.

We can stay and suffer our self or we can recognize that it does more harm than good to our life and wellbeing, and move on.

I choose the second option.

Sometimes the worst pain you experienced is the best way to exit the situation. It is easier being said than done.

But at the end of the day, this is your life and you live only once.

So please do your self a favor, respect and love your self, and know that your once chance in life deserve only the best thing and you also have to think about your own happiness.

One door may closed but many other door are now open, where I regain my confidence back, rebuilding my relationship with people with value, who respect and keep their faith in me. Continuing what I do for living without sacrificing my believe and dignity. Life is still hard of course but it is much more easier, now that I do not longer have to carry those heavy weight on my shoulder.

I wish you all the happiness and the best thing in life my Ladies

hello hurt.... :)

Never thougt that we meet again, rait???
But it just my wish...

Hurt still come giving the scars
And every scar have it own story

Being cheated…

Lied...

Betrayed…

Even, bullied…

And the tears... easily take away the light on the eyes

Damn it's so hurt if you wanna know...

But, healing those feeling is an art
Even it's hard

Some how it make me grown too strong

And yeah… scar is still a scar, it won’t be  gone..
it just seems flawless in one reason,
we have to moving on.. that’s it.

No worries cause everything is written by the hands of God
Just  keep faith, and love our self
Release the past...

That's the deal, HURT.... =))

i'm sorry good bye

sebelum bertemu denganmu
diriku bahagia
semenjak bertemu denganmu
ku makin bahagia

semakin lama aku
semakin tau tentang engkau
sedikit kecewa
ternyata engkau tak baik

pertama tama semua manis
yang engkau berikan
membuat aku merasakan
cinta sebenarnya

semakin hari
semakin terungkap
yang sesungguhnya
kumakin kecewa
ternyata kau penuh dusta

maafkan ku harus pergi
ku tak suka dengan ini
aku tak bodoh
seperti kekasihmu yang lain

terimakasih oh Tuhan
tunjukkan siapa dia
maaf kita putus
so thank you so much
i’m sorry good bye

seribu cara kau membuat
ku dengan puitis
tapi kau lupa bahwa
ku juga manusia
yang punya mata
perihnya hati dan perasaan
maaf aku pergi
dan takkan untukmu lagi
(i’m sorry good bye)

ku tak suka dengan ini
aku tak bodoh
maafkan ku harus pergi
tak seperti kekasihmu yang lain

terimakasih oh Tuhan
tunjukkan siapa dia
maaf kita putus
so thank you so much
i’m sorry good by


(Melly Goeslaw)