from niluh djelantik

Abuse, are not acceptable in any forms.

Living with Abuse is like living with invisible weight on our shoulder, and the worst part is that after sometime we start to accept and thinks that it is normal to be treated this way.

Some people hope that by accepting it and living up to the expectation of the abuser and their abuse, the condition will improve and things will change.

The painful truth is, it will not change. No matter how you did your best, it will never be enough.

We can stay and suffer our self or we can recognize that it does more harm than good to our life and wellbeing, and move on.

I choose the second option.

Sometimes the worst pain you experienced is the best way to exit the situation. It is easier being said than done.

But at the end of the day, this is your life and you live only once.

So please do your self a favor, respect and love your self, and know that your once chance in life deserve only the best thing and you also have to think about your own happiness.

One door may closed but many other door are now open, where I regain my confidence back, rebuilding my relationship with people with value, who respect and keep their faith in me. Continuing what I do for living without sacrificing my believe and dignity. Life is still hard of course but it is much more easier, now that I do not longer have to carry those heavy weight on my shoulder.

I wish you all the happiness and the best thing in life my Ladies